Author Archives: Kathy

About Kathy

I grew up in Buffalo,New York the second eldest child in a family that eventually included eight children. The neighborhood was an Irish-American enclave. These two facts explain a great deal about me. I spent many years as a teacher who really thought of herself as a writer.

If you are looking for my latest post, “What Not to Say to a Widow,” I am sorry, but I decided to remove it. I don’t want to offend anyone.   I received two messages that indicate that the post could be offensive. That … Continue reading

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War Is Declared

Author’s note: This is a short , short story based on an incident in my novel, Loving Christy. Hope you enjoy it!     It was Friday night, the first night of her new job waitressing at O’Malley’s Bar and Grille, and Sandy was nervous. Entering … Continue reading

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My Brother Tommy

  My brother Tommy died on March seventh. He was only 62 year of age—much too young to leave this earth. He battled cancer twice and had a heart valve replaced about 15 years ago. He survived all that, only … Continue reading

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The Beach

  Stress has been the constant drumbeat in my life for a long time. For the last several years, I helped my husband cope with cancer—the first one almost 6 years ago— the one he survived. And then about a … Continue reading

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Discussing My Novel

  “…fiction is like a spider’s web, attached ever so lightly perhaps, but still attached to life at all four corners.”   Virginia Woolf     I had a unique experience recently. My book club, the Pageturners, chose my novel, Loving … Continue reading

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My Novel Has Arrived!

My novel, Loving Christy is now a reality! I know that because there are three boxes of books stacked up in my living room waiting to meet  their new owners. I am slowly, but surely, distributing the books to those … Continue reading

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Happy Holidays

  Sorry, Merry Christmas people, I’ve decided to make the change to saying Happy Holidays. Let me explain. Yes, I love Christmas and believe that it is actually the birthday of Jesus Christ—to me, it is a holy day. One … Continue reading

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It’s Trash Night Again?

“Take out the papers and the trash!” If you are of a certain age, you’ll remember these words from a popular song in the 50’s. This has become my new anthem.  Our trash  goes out every week on Monday night, … Continue reading

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On Being a Widow

I am a widow now that my husband passed away. I don’t like the word widow. It conjures up images of old ladies in rolled black stockings shrouded in “widow’s weeds”—black clothes hanging off their backs. Women who no longer … Continue reading

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Musings on a Writer’s Workshop

  People surround me. Perched on uncomfortable folding chairs, we are jammed into a small space squeezed between the shelves in a book store. Voices make a hub-bub, and I look around to see the other fledgling writers. Some are … Continue reading

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